I’ve now spent exactly a week in a town that has two attractions and six restaurants listed on TripAdvisor. Not exactly a tourist magnet, it is famous (if that’s the word) for its mineral springs (home of Peñafiel and García Crespo), chicken farms, and denim maquiladoras. Judging by the looks I get as I walk around the square, Gringo tourists are as rare as snow in this warm-weather town. But I’ve nonetheless had a great time here.
My main and only reason to visit, of course, was Edgar, who I met in Puebla about five weeks ago. He was also the cause of a much longer-than-expected stay there, so he’s held an unexpected sway over this trip. And what a delightful “unexpected sway” it has been. Since we met in Puebla, we’ve been living a mini-romance, first in person, then via WhatsApp and Skype, and now again in person. It was really a delight to meet up once again a week ago Monday, and we’ve been pretty much inseparable since. I think I’ve found my most compelling reason to come back.
But of course there’s not too much blog-worthy stuff to report either. Tehuacán has a reasonably nice plaza, Parque Juarez, though a number of the mature trees are either dead or cut down, leaving stumps behind. I’m sure they’ll get replaced one of these days, but for now, the plaza doesn’t have a lot of shade. Which is unfortunate, because the city lies about 800 meters of altitude below Puebla or Mexico City, meaning it’s hotter here than there. Of course it’s nothing like the Yucatán, and blessedly the heat is pretty dry. Still, I’ve kept the hotel a/c running pretty constantly. And speaking of hotels, I may well have the world’s best deal in a hotel here. Right on the plaza and at $550 pesos per night (~$42 USD), the room is large (15’x25′) with a luxury bathroom, two double beds, nice furniture, and a (so far unused) flat screen TV. And there’s parking in the basement. Oh, and the internet works great. It’s called the Tehuacán Plaza, if you ever need it.
Across the plaza lies the cathedral, which is nice, though not spectacular. However the interior is undergoing a nearly-complete restoration, and it is very beautiful. Much of the painting and most of the gilding have been redone, and fresh gilt is a sight to behold, dazzling in its imitation of heaven. The church has elected to make blue the predominant interior color, and that blends very nicely with the gold. Overall the effect is brilliant, but tasteful in my view.
God, church, and country are nicely blended below. Outside of the Shrine to the Virgin of Guadalupe, I don’t recall having seen elsewhere a representation of the famous peasant, Juan Diego, who saw the Virgin and whose image was left on his cloak.
Aside from the cathedral and a few churches, the city doesn’t seem to have a lot to offer architecturally. There’s the odd colonial-style building here and there, but there don’t seem to be any blocks of them, even right off the Parque Juarez. The majority of the buildings here are mid-to-late twentieth century, pragmatic things, connected to each other with the never-ending rat’s nest of wires that are the bane of anyone trying to take pictures in Mexico.
But there is a very nice Palacio Municipal facing the plaza that would be right at home in Puebla.
With a population of about 250,000, the city does have the amenities of a shopping mall, cinema, a Liverpool, and other comforts of civilization. It also has one gay bar (Choperia Living Gay), that we went to late Saturday night. Initially we hadn’t planned to go out, but since we couldn’t sleep, at about 1:30 am we left to go clubbing. There was a smallish, but decent crowd at the bar, probably small due to it’s being Mother’s Day in Mexico. For entertainment, there was a singer, and then a stripper. Unlike in Mexico City, he did not take it all off, but was entertaining nonetheless. Later, with the dance floor clear, we all got up and danced. We were there until about 3:30 AM, though I think they were about to close anyway. (Thank God; I can only take clubbing in limited doses.) The club is pretty nice, and it’s nice to see that it is not hidden in some back alley. It sits on Independencia Poniente at the corner of Calle 12 Sur, right on the main drag near the mall, and the façade is painted with a large rainbow flag motif. Obviously there are some people who won’t “get” the iconography, but I’d say it stands out. And to me it says there’s a gay community here that’s ready to be recognized and accepted for what it is, which always makes me happy to see. It’s real progress in this world that even in Mexican backwaters, there are gay bars and people living their lives openly.
Edgar has decided that his experiment with Puebla was not to be. Here in Tehuacán he has clients, work, and now has rented a house. We’ve spent a couple days getting the house ready to live in, and there’s still more work to be done, which we plan to continue today. Though it’s a very small two-bedroom row-house, the rent is amazingly cheap at $1,100 pesos per month, or about $85 USD. No, it’s not in a great neighborhood, and it’s about 15-20 minutes out of the Centro. It’s also very small, probably about 500 square feet if even that. But it has a front garden, back patio, parking, and is plenty big for one or two people. And for less monthly rent than my cell phone bill? Amazing. I’m not sure how the economics of that work for the landlord, but I’m glad he was able to find a deal.
As for me, I’ll be here a while longer. I feel like every day with Edgar is a blessing. We hit a little tope yesterday that we quickly overcame, but overall things have been amazingly wonderful. I’m not sure about the remaining trajectory of my trip, though I still need to be back in Boston on May 31st. Whether I drive to Laredo and fly back from there, or drive the whole way needs to be decided soon. For now, I’ll count my blessings and enjoy every minute. Saludos!
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Quick question. Could you share pics of Edgar’s house (and Edgar)? Your descriptions intrigued me and I’m curious as to what kind of house he got for the price.
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Hola Marcjeysf! I’m not going to publish any photos of Edgar, sorry. But he’s adorable, with beautiful dark skin, a medium build, about 5’3″, and has a lovely smile and a wonderful personality. As for his house, it’s a two-bedroom house of about 425 square feet. It’s a row house, which is to say that the side walls are shared with neighbors who have substantially similar properties. The lot is about 19′ wide by 45′ deep. Bedroom 1 measures 9.5’x 9′ and bedroom 2 measures 10.7’x9′. There are no closets, though bedroom 2 has a small alcove that could become a closet. The bathroom has a shower stall, a sink and a toilet and is pretty small, while the small kitchen has a sink with one garden-style faucet (cold only) and measures 5’x7.75′. There’s a door to the back patio on the short side of the kitchen. The other short side faces the living/dining area. The back patio is poured concrete, with a typical Mexican concrete laundry sink, a place for a washer, and is the same width as the house and maybe 8′ deep. The front garden is probably 15’deep, and could accommodate one car to park. The neighborhood is primarily lower-middle class families. Few people seem to own cars, and there are a lot of kids in ages from about 3 to early teens. The neighborhood can be located on Google Maps here.
The condition of the house is pretty bad, and we’ve been doing a lot of work. The house is probably 10-15 years old. Though the house is a sold, brick and concrete house, were I to purchase it, I’d do a complete remodel. So the rent is very cheap, but there are issues with the property. I hope that helps. I’m not going to post any pictures, but if you are familiar with Mexican fraccionamientos, it’s pretty typical. Saludos.
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Thanks for the mapping. I gave myself a little tour, and now have a clearer idea of the neighborhood.
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Hi Kim,
Good to see you having a great time. Good to see you sharing it with us. I’m so glad you did take the blogging plunge after all those years of dithering! And good to see you have found your Edgar! Which is a great name, albeit less common, and a whole load more descriptive and evocative than an initial!
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Hola Gary! Thanks for the comment. Yes, now that I’ve begun blogging, I’m wondering what took me so long, LOL. That said, I’m a little worried about what I’m going to write about once my trip is over and I’ve run out of unpublished stuff from it. But I’m sure I’ll think of something. And Edgar has been the best part of this trip, really. We are just having a ton of fun together. Saludos!
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I’m sure that this epic journey will provide some additional material after you return. And you can always write some posts about previous trips that you took before you began your blog. (I often do that when I am between trips.)
¡Saludos!
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Hola Bill! There’s still plenty about this trip that I haven’t yet written about, so I suspect I’ll have fodder for while yet. But as you know, once you start a blog, there’s always that niggling worry about where the next post is coming from. I marvel at Steve Cotton’s ability to post daily. Saludos and thanks for multiple comments!
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Oh, Kim. There will always be champú bottles! 🙂
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LOL, indeed. I’ve actually considered writing such a post just to see how many comments I can get. Judging by Steve’s blog, it’s a hot topic. Thanks for stopping back and Saludos!
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What a nice trip. You experienced so much! Isn’t that what traveling is all about? Decisions, decisions… one never stops making them through life, big or small.
¡Disfruta mucho!
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Hola Andean! You know, people talk of a “trip of a lifetime,” and I hesitate to use the phrase, but this trip never fails to amaze me. In some respects I feel like I’ve died and gone to heaven. Thanks for your comment and Saludos!
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A house with parking! Good! You can leave your car there, fly back to Boston, do whatever it is you need to do, and then dash back off to Mx. Ha!
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I’m pretty sure that Mexican law says that if you enter the country with a vehicle, you must leave the country with that vehicle.
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What a spoil sport you are…! 😉
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Hola Simone! Unfortunately, the truck needs to leave the country with me. But that’s not too bad. The drive from Laredo to Boston is about 2x the distance from Tehuacán to Laredo. So I’m looking into storing the truck and flying from Laredo back to Boston, with a return within a month or two. Saludos!
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How stupid is that! The law, I mean. What if there’s a family emergency, for example, and you need to be back in the US asap? What if your car breaks down and is not worth repairing? Plus a bunch of other legit reasons!
Anyway, as inconvenient as it may be, it’s not an insurmountable hurdle for you, at least.
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Mexican bureaucracy is not known for its strict adherence to what you or I might consider “logic.” Unfortunately.
The background behind the law, though, is that at one point in the distant past, Mexicans were buying cars in the USA and thus avoiding the value added tax. So the government put into place a strict set of laws concerning the importation and use of cars from the USA or Canada. And they include such rules as no Mexican can drive my car, for example, unless I’m in it with him. And of course, the car has to leave Mexico with me. Saludos.
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Eso es… ¡un coñazo total!
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LOL!!!!
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There is a way around that by leaving the truck parked in a Aduana parking lot. If you do this, they permit you to leave the country without it for short periods. This way they know you have not sold the vehicle.
I am sending an email regarding flights.
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Hola Croft! Thanks for yet another really useful tip. What would I do without you? LOL. Saludos!
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Glad you are enjoying yourself in Tehuacán. I’ve never been there, and it’s not really on my list of places to see… but I’m sure that you will be returning again and again. It seems like a pleasant town (and romance makes it more than pleasant). You might end up calling Tehuacán your second home.
So if you drive only as far as Laredo, and fly to Boston, what will you do with the truck?
Saludos from Ohio!
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Hola Bill! I’ll probably put the truck into storage (basically a secure parking lot) in Laredo. I’ve looked into it, and it’s about $85 a month, way cheaper than driving back and forth to Boston. Saludos!
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P.S. I wouldn’t put Tehuacán on your list unless you’re coming here to see one of us, LOL. Even the plaza lacks the charm of Córdoba’s.
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Another chapter in the book Kim. 😉 Loving your “trip report!”
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Hola Cat! Thanks for the comment. Who knows? This might be another chapter in my life! Saludos!
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Definitely another chapter of your life, which is what your book is all about! 😉
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Mexican road trip as metaphor for life? I’ll take it! Saludos.
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So where’s a photo of this Edgar fella? Inquiring minds want to see. Also, you cannot mention a tope that was quickly overcome without going into the juicy details. It simply is not done. Mind your blog manners.
Edgar. It’s interesting to me that names that went out of fashion a century ago in the United States are still quite popular in Mexico. My wife is one example, but there are scads of others.
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Hola Felipe! I’m not going to post a picture of him. Sorry. But rest assured, he’s quite handsome. As for the tope, well, it’s kinda complicated, and at the end of the day was a combination of a misunderstanding and somewhat frayed nerves. As for the name trend, I’ve noticed it too. F’s sister has such a name, as well as any number of other people I know here. As for “Edgar,” remember, it’s a stage name. Saludos and thanks for your comment.
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Stage name! If you mentioned that before, I overlooked it, obviously. But your choice is accurate because those old-timey names are fairly common.
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Just about all the names on this blog have been changed to protect the guilty. Exceptions are when the person already has a public, online identity such as some of my commenters, or for example my friend, Julio, who has a store in DF with a website with his name on it.
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I saw a picture of Edgar when Kim and I met in Mexico City, and I will vouch that he is an attractive fellow.
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Who cares how handsome Edgar may be? More important questions need to be asked and answered before Kim makes any major lifestyle changes. Who are his people? What is his history? How much of this is verifiable? What is his net worth? How much does he owe, to whom, and why? Who were his previous relationships? And then there is that matter of health issues.
You’re right about the names — Hector, Oscar, and biblical names that weren’t even fashionable in our grandparents’ days. And then there are the Jhonahtans and Kieths. Well, at least we know that Kim’s not hanging with the Jennifers, Mondrrrats, and Heathers.
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We all have different criteria, I guess. Thanks for sharing some of yours. Saludos!
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I think Kim is mature enough, intelligent enough, and responsible enough to ask these questions before he makes any major decisions. In the meantime, Kim, enjoy your stay in Tehuacán.
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Bill: Thanks so much! And I am! Saludos.
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Return flight from Puebla to Boston is about $700 US. That would solve the car storage problem and would put you right back in Puebla to continue the adventure. There are options.
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Hola Croft! I looked at flights into and out of Puebla, but it appears to not be an international airport. So I couldn’t find any flights. Also I think I need to take my truck out of the country with me too. But Laredo is a 2-3 day drive from here, depending on how hard I push it, and a flight from Laredo to Boston and back runs about $400, so it’s quite doable. Thanks for commenting and saludos!
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The last time I had investigated, there are flights from Puebla to Houston on United (don’t know if they are daily or not). However, unless the laws have been changed, you do need to leave the country with your truck. I remember being told once that even if your vehicle is totaled in an accident, you are expected to ship the wreckage back to the U.S.! (Don’t know how true that is.)
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Hey Bill! I’ve heard similar things about shipping back wreckage. Given the “logic” in Mexican bureaucracy, such a rule wouldn’t surprise me. As for flights to Puebla, I did several searches including starting in Texas, but to no avail. My guess is that Puebla isn’t set up to handle international flights. Saludos and thanks for your comment.
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Not that it matters on this trip, since you need to leave the country with your truck, but you might want to keep this in mind for future trips…
I just went to the United Airlines website, and there are evening flights from Houston to Puebla. In fact the roundtrip airfare for Cleveland – Puebla was only $429, which I thought was a great price! My former colleague Jane and I were talking about going to Oaxaca next winter. At that price, we might fly to Puebla, spend a few days there, and then take the bus to Oaxaca.
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Bill: thanks for your persistence on that. It’s good to know. I like your idea of a Puebla/Oaxaca trip. As I’ve written (and you know from personal experience) Puebla is charming and well worth visiting. Saludos!
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I’m SO glad you went back to Edgar and that the two of you are enjoying life together. That’s a lovely town. Heavens, there is no gay bar in SMA so your village is more advanced then we are here! And we have a large gay population! Cost of living is definitely unbelieveable. Enjoy! I’m becoming doubtful that I’m going to get to see you this trip, darn.
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Hola Barbara, Thanks for the kind words. I am very happy right now, not eager to go back yet. As for seeing you, SMA is more or less on the way, so I’m still hoping to wangle a night there perhaps. Saludos!
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BTW, you talk about the town you’re in like it is little – maybe in comparison to Boston, but not in comparison to SMA! We have about 40,000, if that many, in the town proper so Tehuacan is 6 times larger!
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Hola Barbara, Tehuacan feels smaller than it really is, a mid-sized city. I also need to do some sight seeing. Saludos!
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No gay bar in San Miguel? Betcha there is.
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From what I hear, they are all mixed. Also note that SMA has about half the population of Tehuacán.
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Integration!
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Indeed. It’s happening at a very rapid pace.
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Nope, no gay bars! I asked three gay couples and they say “No”. Surprising, I agree.
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I seem to recall F and I doing some research and coming up empty handed. Thanks for confirming. Saludos!
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There have to be gay bars in SMA. They might not be draped in the rainbow flag, but they’re there. We straight people just don’t know about them, that’s all. Even Patzcuaro’s got its Closeth.
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I’ve been to Pátzcuaro’s Closeth. And whenever I get back there, I’ll revisit. Saludos!
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